In life, every individual’s desire is to become successful in whatever activities or events they are involved in. Students hope to succeed in their academic pursuits, Investors and business owners expect to succeed in their investments and businesses, Soldiers hope to be conquerors, Workers expect to excel in their work places, Couples wish that their marriages will be successful etc, but most of the time these good wishes for success are not fulfilled because they are being sabotaged with doubts and fear with the use of negative thinking. This article will examine the reasons for this and offer solutions that might help to correct it in the discourse that follows immediately.
People always have good wishes, but they end up destroying their good wishes through doubts and fear, and one of the reasons is that most of the time people engage in negative thinking, which is different from the good things they wish to achieve at any point in time. The direct result of this is not being able to actualize their wishes. When there is a disparity between what one wishes and what he continually thinks about in his mind, the wishes do not normally come through as expected. Individuals’ wishes will always be in agreement with their inner thoughts for their wishes to come through.
People are guilty of destroying their envisaged success with self doubt and fear because they lack the necessary courage, willpower and determination needed to excel in their endeavors. It takes a lot of courage, willpower and determination to excel in any form of activity or event, therefore when individuals lack these qualities, the fear of inability to complete the tasks ahead of them creeps in, and in the long run, it helps in sabotaging the success which they hope to achieve at the initial stage. Another thing that can easily arouse fear in individuals is the belief that what they are hoping to achieve is bigger than them without really making serious efforts to get those wishes they have, to come to its total fulfillment.
In order to correct or control this action of sabotaging success with fear and self doubt, you have to consider doing the following things:
Build your self confidence: You should try to build your self confidence through the most effective means available to you in order to conquer fear.
Be cautious of what you think, about what you hope to achieve: You should always try as much as possible to be careful or cautious of what you think in your inner mind about your envisaged success. Negative thoughts destroy success, while positive thoughts help to build it.
Finally, you should always try to believe in yourself and abilities in order to remove self doubt from your thoughts.
We all wish for success in different areas of our engagements, but in order to make our wishes to come through, we should endeavor to use our thoughts in the right manner.
INVESTORS COMMUNITY
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
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